Syazwan, you need to learn to accept yourself , before others can accept who you are. Who you wanna be, is where you wanna stand in this world. I know it’s not easy to be adaptable to changes. I found it difficult too. I struggled. We have to.
To be honest, I was afraid of changes that will take place once I stepped into polytechnic. New friends. New environment. More enemies. But then, thinking of who I wanna be, I started to realise that I should make an aim.make only one aim cos when there’s too much, you don’t know where to start. So what’s my aim? To enter the local university into the course that I wanted (psychology) . Relationship will stop for me for awhile. My dreams, my future cant wait. I shouldn’t care what others have to say,I know its hard, but I believe I’ll make it through the hardships.
I cant expect anyone to accept my flaws, cos I don’t accept theirs too, sometimes. And that, I’ll have to be understandable that we’re humans. We are imperfect, that’s why we are here to polish ourselves and try to be perfect.life is never hard. Don’t push it hard on yourself, you’ll just make the going harder.
Instead, be there for yourself. Trust your instincts. Know what you want. And appreciate little things that people made for you and you’ll be the happiest man on Earth. Its okay to be childish sometimes, its human nature. Pamper yourself. Make yourself feels good. Not so difficult. For example, treat yourself a dinner that you want instead of what is the least expensive in the menu or maybe, buy the pencil that cost 10 dollars. Cos you deserved the best ;) that’ll make you happy, for shure.
If you don’t love yourself, then who will? Mother theresa would. Too bad, she’s dead :P well anyway,my kiyai taught me something- the power of zero.
He said “ power of zero- mengosongkan semua fikiran dari kotoran-kotoran apapun, serta khayalan yang negatif ,hilangkan semua beban dahulu ,rileks, atur pernafasan , dan munculkan sifat positif ,maafkan sesiapapun yang pernah bersalah,yang pernah mengecewakan,mencederai dan yang pernah melukakan. Lupakan semua itu.Dan tanggalkan pakaian dunia,jabatan, maupun kekayaan, dan pakailah pakaian yaang telah dianugerahkan oleh Allah ,yaitu iman, keikhlasan dan ketaqwaan”
To be honest, I was afraid of changes that will take place once I stepped into polytechnic. New friends. New environment. More enemies. But then, thinking of who I wanna be, I started to realise that I should make an aim.make only one aim cos when there’s too much, you don’t know where to start. So what’s my aim? To enter the local university into the course that I wanted (psychology) . Relationship will stop for me for awhile. My dreams, my future cant wait. I shouldn’t care what others have to say,I know its hard, but I believe I’ll make it through the hardships.
I cant expect anyone to accept my flaws, cos I don’t accept theirs too, sometimes. And that, I’ll have to be understandable that we’re humans. We are imperfect, that’s why we are here to polish ourselves and try to be perfect.life is never hard. Don’t push it hard on yourself, you’ll just make the going harder.
Instead, be there for yourself. Trust your instincts. Know what you want. And appreciate little things that people made for you and you’ll be the happiest man on Earth. Its okay to be childish sometimes, its human nature. Pamper yourself. Make yourself feels good. Not so difficult. For example, treat yourself a dinner that you want instead of what is the least expensive in the menu or maybe, buy the pencil that cost 10 dollars. Cos you deserved the best ;) that’ll make you happy, for shure.
If you don’t love yourself, then who will? Mother theresa would. Too bad, she’s dead :P well anyway,my kiyai taught me something- the power of zero.
He said “ power of zero- mengosongkan semua fikiran dari kotoran-kotoran apapun, serta khayalan yang negatif ,hilangkan semua beban dahulu ,rileks, atur pernafasan , dan munculkan sifat positif ,maafkan sesiapapun yang pernah bersalah,yang pernah mengecewakan,mencederai dan yang pernah melukakan. Lupakan semua itu.Dan tanggalkan pakaian dunia,jabatan, maupun kekayaan, dan pakailah pakaian yaang telah dianugerahkan oleh Allah ,yaitu iman, keikhlasan dan ketaqwaan”
thank you Asyqah...
